Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of WomenI have found a place on the internet where real women, who happen to be mothers as well, meet to talk about relationships and sex. At CafeMom not only do they chat about the normal "Oh, now that I'm a Mom I don't feel like having sex anymore" problems, but they also open up about every aspect of their sex lives. Message board topics include "Multiple Orgasms," "How Often Does Your Husband Masturbate?" and "Anyone Else Bi-Curious?" The discussions are graphic, uncensored, and brutally honest. I was very impressed by the thoughtfulness, open-mindedness, and supportive attitudes of these women.
I was also pleasantly surprised to find that their were quite a few Groups dedicated to sexuality. Each group has hundreds to thousands of members and have very active communities. For instance, I posted an introduction and within twenty minutes had three replies. These women are lively, and certainly not shy!
As you may know from my previous posts, I don't like or agree with the stereotype of the "Virginal Mother" who is often pitted against the other cultural archetype, the "Whore." As a woman if you are "too" sexual, you can't be a good mother, and conversely as a mother you are expected to be ultra-conservative and hush-hush about sex. Thank goodness for places like CafeMom!
So, if you are a mother and refuse to relinquish your wonderfully sexual side, take a look at CafeMom, or go directly to one of the groups that I'm talking about by clicking a banner below. I promise that at the least you'll be entertained, and will probably learn something here and there.
I was also pleasantly surprised to find that their were quite a few Groups dedicated to sexuality. Each group has hundreds to thousands of members and have very active communities. For instance, I posted an introduction and within twenty minutes had three replies. These women are lively, and certainly not shy!
As you may know from my previous posts, I don't like or agree with the stereotype of the "Virginal Mother" who is often pitted against the other cultural archetype, the "Whore." As a woman if you are "too" sexual, you can't be a good mother, and conversely as a mother you are expected to be ultra-conservative and hush-hush about sex. Thank goodness for places like CafeMom!
So, if you are a mother and refuse to relinquish your wonderfully sexual side, take a look at CafeMom, or go directly to one of the groups that I'm talking about by clicking a banner below. I promise that at the least you'll be entertained, and will probably learn something here and there.
PS - There are also lots of other Groups that chat about other Motherly things...It's not all about sex!
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