So instead of the usual Sunday Erotica I've decided to treat you little lovelies to a bit of moving, writhing, moaning visual stimulation. I'll keep the post short and let the sensuous girl above work her magic...
Vulvology - Which I assume refers to the study of vulvas - is a website dedicated to showing pictures of vaginas. Actually I think the plural of vagina is vaginae, but have you ever heard anyone use that word before? Other than in the medical profession, maybe? No? Neither have I, so I'm going to keep using "vaginas."
Anyways, the site is supposed to be "an homage to the eternal and ubiquitous woman, through the glorification of her geographic and conceptual center, enveloped in mystery in all cultures and ages," and the creator is apparently very upset that it is often classified as porn since she is so staunchly against all forms of pornography. On this I agree. Picture after picture of vaginas doing nothing but sitting there is not porn. If viewers get turned on by them, so be it, but just because something causes sexual excitement does not mean it's necessarily porn. After all, many people think high heeled boots are a turn-on, but shoe shops aren't porn shops after all!
So although I was annoyed reading her vagina-attached thoughts, and was mostly confused by the strange labels she used to categorize the pictures (Bivalve, Leaves, Walnuts?), its pseudo-feminist oddities intrigued me. Plus, if I ever wondered what other women's vaginas looked like without the porn-star makeovers, consider my curiosity sated.
(WARNING: This site has an obnoxious amount of pop-ups, so use your pop-up blocker if you have one!)
Go ahead, admit it. You've gone to YouTube and searched for "adult," "sex," "XXX," or "porn." Don't lie! You know you have...
I'm sure you thought, "Surely somebody out there has uploaded themselves getting crazy on a Friday night!" But inevitably the disappointment sank in because even the videos marked for "content" are nothing more than PG-13 shots...The wonderful YouTube Cleanliness Committee has already searched for and destroyed any of the "really good videos."
But cheer up, 'cause I have quite a treat for you this lucky Sunday! I've found it, the hidden porn treasure trove. A YouTube-like site just for adults...and it's completely free.
No more 10 second clips, no more wasted time searching out adult content on non-adult sites...
Now you can go to GEXO and see all the happy bopping you want!
Apparently the site launched this January, so is still in the process of working out its "kinks" so to speak. As I mentioned, it is free now, but I'm not sure if a site this good will remain that way for long.
If you're feeling a little, um,erotically charged, go ahead and visit. I was so excited by this discovery I just had to share the Love with you, my most appreciated readers!
Judging by its continually increasing popularity, people not only find watching orgasmic faces interesting, but highly erotic. In fact man commentors claim that Beautiful Agony is the most sexually exciting thing they've ever seen, especially in comparison to other "traditional" porn sites.
So, while I have no doubt that watching someone else cum makes you want to do the same, can we really classify Beautiful Agony as pornography? After all, it's only showing faces! What's so "indecent" about a face making all sorts of "interesting" expressions, and "funny" noises?
1: the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement 2: material (as books or a photograph) that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement
Hmmm, it does cause sexual excitement, and it does intend to do so. How do I know its intentions? Because the "About" section of Beautiful Agony specifically says - "This may be the most erotic thing you have ever seen, yet the only nudity it contains is from the neck up. That's where people are truly naked." So clearly the website knows that people are watching their material to become "sexually excited."
I suppose then that based on Merriam-Webster it is pornography. Wow. Just watching a face is pornographic. I never thought I'd hear that.
Still, I don't completely buy it. I can't bring myself to call it pornography. Of course it's extremely hot, but so are some billboards! Do they intend to cause sexual excitement? Yes! That's how they get people to purchase their products...But these types of ads aren't pornographic, just sexy. So for me, Beautiful Agony remains in that wickedly naughty area of amazingly-erotic but non-pornographic material.
After all, I can watch "regular" porn all day without even batting an eye, but Beautiful Agony makes *me* blush! Now that's saying something!
What do you think? Is it porn?! See for yourself. Then leave a comment and let me know!
Continuing with the theme of strange hetero-male obsessions, I'd like to talk a little about your fascination with lesbian porn. I've been thinking about this for a while now, and I still can't figure out the answer to...why?? What is the incredible appeal of watching two women go at it without even the hint of a male presence? After all, as fas as I know man-on-man porn is not such a big thing for hetero-women...So, what's with the lesbians?
Here's what I've come up with so far:
1. Women are beautiful and turn you on, therefore seeing two is even better than seeing one. OK, I can understand that.
2. Girl-on-Girl Porn doesn't make you at all jealous because there's no man involved for you to consciously or unconsciously compete with. I suppose watching another man have sex with a "hot" girl might not do it for you because the thought "Why is she doing him and not me?" might be distracting. Right.
3. Seeing his "bigger and better" penis makes you feel self-conscious. If this is your reason be sure to read this. It might help.
4. You think of yourself as so "ultra-heterosexual" that even the thought of another man having sex turns you off - let alone watching it! Yeah, this reasons makes me laugh since watching lesbians is watching homosexuals. Grant it it's not male homosexuals, but still! Plus, wouldn't you rather watch a girl who you could potentially have a chance with by the simple virtue of having a penis than a girl who likes vaginas? (I know, many of the so-called porn lesbians aren't necessarily lesbians off camera, but it's the idea!)
5. I have no fifth reason! I told you this topic stumps me!
None of the previous four reasons seem good enough to explain the prevalence of the lesbian porn mystique. Sure they may be part of the answer, but I'm missing something vitally intrinsic to the overall appeal.
So Guys, I need your help! Leave a comment or write to me at SpeakSexy@aol.com and tell me why YOU enjoy watching two girls kiss, suck, and lick each other. I honestly want to know!
I'm planning to write a follow-up article to this one with all of your fantastic reasons (not your names of course), so please write to me!
P.S. - I hope you enjoyed the videos...Happy Sunday!
I thought I'd start us off with a topic that seems to get all sorts of mixed reactions; Pornography Use in Relationships. Leaving aside the more generic arguments against porn such as the degradation of women and such, some people claim that pornography is the very thing destroying their marriages, while others feel that it is just another useful tool in their creative toy box. Both sides of the argument are rather well known. Basic Against It:
Its use fosters feelings of guilt in the user and mistrust, anger, and inadequacy in the partner.
It gives men in particular unreasonable expectations of women's bodies and behaviors.
It is cheating!
Basic For It:
In circumstances when partners can not be together, it is an alternative to having sex with someone else (long distance relationships, during times when one partner is unable or unwilling to have sex such as after the birth of a child, etc.)
It adds spice to a long-term couple's hum-drum sexuality. It can generate new ideas or act as part of the foreplay when viewed together.
It is not cheating!
Personally I enjoy pornography of all kinds, even being the feminist that I am! I think porn is a nice way of "breaking the ice" sometimes...Nothing says "I want to have sex now Honey!" as the cacophony of moans and slapping sounds that gently waft from the computer during those free 10 second movie clips! However, in all honesty I must say that when I am not involved in my husband's porn excursions I do feel somewhat left out, and have even gone as far as feeling anger on occasion. But why?! Intellectually I have nothing against it...but emotionally there is a part of me that feels my husband's sexuality belongs to me, and mine to him. So during his singular porn sessions, when he is viewing, thinking about, and getting excited by other women with me no where in his direct sensual world, it feels unpleasantly strange...like he is being sexual without me when I should be there in some way! On the flip side, I feel guilty watching porn without him. So, do I think viewing porn is cheating? No...but I understand that to some degree it does feel like it, especially during those times when both of us are not involved.
Hi Rose. I read some of your blog which I never really do. However, I found it very interesting, educational, and stimulating. Wow! I am gonna keep reading. Thank you.
-- jd--
Rose: What a well thought out and well articulated blog.
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I read your profile and part of your blog and wanted to say it's wonderful to find someone who has a mature attitude about sex and sexuality. Most people online seem to want to joke about it, talk in circles about it and just don't have a clue about either their own sexuality or anyone else's. I hope you can educate some people and help them find their way.
--Mario--
This is great stuff you have Rose; well done, thought out, etc,. I wish you great success!
